My Definition of “Mistake” Differs
Posted By Randy on June 26, 2014
To begin, I offer this summary from an article posted Wednesday by the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation:
A Lunenburg man has been fined $5,000 and is prohibited from owning animals for 10 years after his Portuguese water dog died when he left it inside his car in Wolfville during a hot day last summer …
… Remai said he got the dog, named Jackie, when he was a puppy and went so far as to look for a vet who would avoid using drugs and vaccinations. He said he was stressed the day his dog died — for a number of reasons — and said sometimes bad things happen.
Remai told the court he’s not good at multitasking and was distracted that day. ~ Lunenburg man fined $5K after dog dies in hot car
And this, posted today by CNN:
What sounded like the most tragic of accidents — a dad absentmindedly leaving his toddler in the car on a scorching Georgia day — is now being treated by police as a horrific crime …
… Later that afternoon, around 4:16, Harris left his workplace near Vinings, outside Atlanta. Within minutes, he pulled into a shopping center asking for assistance with the toddler, who had been in the car for about seven hours at that point, the warrant says …
… The second-degree warrant says Harris “did with criminal negligence causes (sic) a child under the age of 18 cruel or excessive physical or mental pain.” …
… “There’s a difference between negligence and gross negligence,” Cobb Police spokesman Mike Bowman said at a press conference. “The thing about the negligence is that it could happen to anybody. The gross negligence shows that there’s some other circumstances revolving around this.”
When a reporter directly asked if authorities think it’s malice or negligence, Bowman said, “I honestly don’t have an answer for that question.” …
… When Harris was charged with felony murder and child cruelty, there was vigorous debate over whether the heartbroken father should be punished. Surely, he had suffered enough, many thought.
Erin Krans of Marietta started a change.org petition asking Cobb District Attorney Vic Reynolds to drop the charges. It garnered hundreds of signatures.
“This could happen to anyone. Anyone. Charging a grieving father is abusive,” wrote Susannah Waldron of Universal City, Texas.
Another signatory, Molly Greenwood of Centerville, Ohio, wrote, “I think the accident alone is enough punishment for the man. I cannot imagine.” ~ Tragic accident or murder in hot-car toddler death?
“I was stressed that day and sometimes bad things happen.”
“I’m not good at multitasking.”
“This could happen to anyone.”
The world is awash with excuses, uttered daily in concert with unbelievably serious efforts to make them acceptable and reasonable, no matter how horrific the outcome. The rebranding of negligence as mistake is a growth industry, so we daily encounter people whose primary daily motivation is the avoidance of responsibility. Unwillingness to commit to anything and living every moment with one foot over the safety line. Belief that it is the duty of someone else to protect you from your own stupidity. To take a stand against the downward spiral of it all invites attack as being too judgmental and laying false claim to perfection, whereas what the naysayers are really doing is paving the way to the day they themselves do something equally idiotic. Sliding that foot over the safety line. (more…)






